A divorce often means one parent may need to relocate for a new job or to be closer to family. This raises an immediate and stressful question: How can we possibly co-parent effectively from different cities or states?

While a long-distance situation presents unique challenges, a well-drafted parenting plan can provide the stability and connection your children need. The focus shifts from frequent, short visits to less frequent but more substantial parenting time.

A typical long-distance parenting plan will address:

• School Year Schedule: The children will reside primarily with one parent during the school year to provide stability. The other parent will have a clear schedule of parenting time, often including one long weekend per month and consistent video calls.

• Holiday & School Breaks: The plan will create a clear rotation for major holidays. Most importantly, it will detail how parenting time is divided during the entire summer break, as well as spring and winter breaks, giving the long-distance parent extended periods of time.

• Travel and Transportation: The plan must clearly state who is responsible for the costs and logistics of travel—booking flights, driving, etc.

• Virtual Connection: A modern plan should include provisions for regular and frequent communication via FaceTime, Zoom, or phone calls to maintain the parent-child bond.

Creating a long-distance plan requires a forward-thinking, cooperative approach to ensure both parents remain central figures in their children's lives.

To learn how to build a comprehensive plan that protects your children's future, download our free guide: Focused on Their Future: A Strategic Guide to Custody and Co-Parenting for Professionals.